{"id":111605,"date":"2018-02-01T20:46:16","date_gmt":"2018-02-01T17:46:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/epochtimestr.com\/?p=111605"},"modified":"2018-02-03T14:47:45","modified_gmt":"2018-02-03T11:47:45","slug":"sevdiklerimiz-oldukten-sonra-gerceklesen-tesadufler-olumden-sonraki-yasamdan-gelen-mesajlar-mi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/epochtimestr.com\/index.php\/sevdiklerimiz-oldukten-sonra-gerceklesen-tesadufler-olumden-sonraki-yasamdan-gelen-mesajlar-mi","title":{"rendered":"Sevdiklerimiz \u00d6ld\u00fckten Sonra Ger\u00e7ekle\u015fen Tesad\u00fcfler, \u00d6l\u00fcmden Sonraki Ya\u015famdan Gelen Mesajlar M\u0131?"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Jennifer Hil,l Kas\u0131m 1994’te b\u00fcy\u00fckbabas\u0131n\u0131n cenaze t\u00f6reni sonras\u0131nda anneannesine evinde e\u015flik ediyordu. Evin giri\u015finde, kap\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131nda \u00e7i\u00e7ek a\u00e7an tek bir gardenya dikkatini \u00e7ekti. Kas\u0131m ay\u0131yd\u0131, gardenyalar\u0131n \u00e7i\u00e7ek a\u00e7ma vakti de\u011fildi.<\/p>\n

Gardenyalar, b\u00fcy\u00fckannesinin en sevdi\u011fi \u00e7i\u00e7ekti. B\u00fcy\u00fckannesi onu g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde, hen\u00fcz akmas\u0131na izin vermedi\u011fi g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 tutamad\u0131. O \u00e7i\u00e7ek, sanki kocas\u0131ndan gelen bir mesaj gibiydi…<\/p>\n

Giri\u015fte \u00e7i\u00e7ek a\u00e7an tek bir gardenya dikkatini \u00e7ekti. Kas\u0131m ay\u0131yd\u0131, gardenyalar\u0131n \u00e7i\u00e7ek a\u00e7ma vakti de\u011fildi.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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Bu \u00e7i\u00e7e\u011fin m\u00fckemmel bir zamanlama ile, mevsimi d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda a\u00e7mas\u0131 \u201csadece bir tesad\u00fcf\u201d m\u00fcyd\u00fc? B\u00fcy\u00fckannesi i\u00e7in, bu anlaml\u0131 bir tesad\u00fcft\u00fc. Gardenya, 40 y\u0131ll\u0131k evliliklerinin sembol\u00fc olan bir i\u015faretti.<\/p>\n

Ocak 2005’te Hill, yine ac\u0131 verici bir tesad\u00fcf ya\u015fad\u0131. K\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fcn yedinci y\u0131ld\u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fc idi. Onun i\u00e7in her y\u0131l yas tuttu\u011fu bir g\u00fcnd\u00fc. G\u00fcnle y\u00fczle\u015fmek \u00fczere yataktan \u00e7\u0131kmadan telefonu \u00e7ald\u0131. K\u0131z karde\u015finin do\u011fum sanc\u0131lar\u0131 ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. K\u0131z karde\u015finin yan\u0131nda ge\u00e7en uzun bir g\u00fcn\u00fcn ard\u0131ndan, kollar\u0131nda sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir bebek tutuyordu.<\/p>\n

Ba\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u201cUyum ve keder: bir yak\u0131n\u0131n\u0131 kaybetti\u011finde ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan anlaml\u0131 tesad\u00fcfler\u201d olan\u00a0doktora tezinde<\/a> Hill,\u00a0 \u201cDo\u011fum ve \u00f6l\u00fcm birbirinin k\u0131z karde\u015fidir. Ben sonsuza kadar iyile\u015ftim.\u201d diye yazm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu tesad\u00fcfler, psikoloji e\u011fitimi alan Hill’i bu fenomeni daha yak\u0131ndan ara\u015ft\u0131rmaya itti.<\/p>\n

Jennifer Hill doktora tezini, matem d\u00f6neminde kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131lan anlaml\u0131 tesad\u00fcfler \u00fczerine yazd\u0131. Ara\u015ft\u0131rmas\u0131nda bu tesad\u00fcflerin yas tutan\u0131n ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 azaltt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Hill, matem d\u00f6neminde kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131lan tesad\u00fcflerle ilgili bilimsel literat\u00fcr\u00fc g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irdi. Yak\u0131n zamanda sevdiklerini kaybeden insanlara, ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 rastlant\u0131lar\u0131 sorarak kendi ara\u015ft\u0131rmas\u0131n\u0131 yapt\u0131.<\/p>\n

Hill, ya\u015fanan tesad\u00fcflerin \u00e7o\u011fu zaman matemdeki insanlar\u0131n ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 azaltt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 tespit etti. Bu tesad\u00fcfler; insanlar\u0131n kaybettikleri ki\u015fiyle ba\u011flant\u0131l\u0131 hissetmelerine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabiliyor. Yaran\u0131n kapanmas\u0131n\u0131, manevi inan\u00e7lar\u0131n g\u00fc\u00e7lenmesini veya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fmesini sa\u011fl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

\u0130nsanlar \u00e7o\u011funlukla rastlant\u0131y\u0131 Tanr\u0131’ya, evrene, \u00f6len ki\u015finin ruhuna ya da kendi zihinlerine ba\u011flarlar. Hill \u015funlar\u0131 yaz\u0131yor: \u201cTecr\u00fcbelerinin ba\u015fkalar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan sadece bir tesad\u00fcf gibi g\u00f6r\u00fclebilece\u011finden endi\u015fe ederken, hepsi de bunun basit bir tesad\u00fcften daha fazlas\u0131 oldu\u011fundan emin olduklar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylediler. Duygusal a\u00e7\u0131dan zay\u0131f olduklar\u0131 bir d\u00f6nemde meydana gelen bu anlaml\u0131 bir tesad\u00fcfler; onlara huzur, \u015fifa ve esenlik duygusu verdi.\u201d<\/p>\n

Haz\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 tezde Hill, tesad\u00fcflerin \u00f6b\u00fcr d\u00fcnyadan gelen mesajlar oldu\u011funu ispatlamaya odaklanmad\u0131. Bunun yerine; rastlant\u0131lar\u0131n,\u00a0 bu deneyimleri ya\u015fayan insanlar \u00fczerindeki etkilerine odakland\u0131.<\/p>\n

Bununla birlikte rastlant\u0131lar, \u015fu soruyu da ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131yor: merhum ki\u015filer, onlar i\u00e7in yas tutanlara mesaj m\u0131 g\u00f6nderir?<\/p>\n

Orlando gece kul\u00fcb\u00fc toplu katliam\u0131ndan sonra herkesin bildi\u011fi bir tesad\u00fcf ger\u00e7ekle\u015fti.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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Katliam\u0131 anma t\u00f6reninde, Orlando \u00fczerinde 49 kurban\u0131n onuruna 49 ku\u015f u\u00e7tu. 19:58 – 15 Haziran 2016<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Ge\u00e7en y\u0131l Orlando Florida’da, Pulse gece kul\u00fcb\u00fcnde katledilen 49 kurban i\u00e7in yap\u0131lan bir anma t\u00f6reni s\u0131ras\u0131nda ya\u015fanan bir tesad\u00fcf, g\u00f6ky\u00fcz\u00fcnde ger\u00e7ekle\u015fti. T\u00f6ren s\u0131ras\u0131nda bir foto\u011fraf\u00e7\u0131, kurbanlar\u0131n isimleri okundu\u011fu anlarda g\u00f6ky\u00fcz\u00fcnde u\u00e7an bir ku\u015f s\u00fcr\u00fcs\u00fc g\u00f6rd\u00fc.<\/p>\n

Tam 49 ku\u015f sayd\u0131.<\/p>\n

CNN’e konu\u015furken<\/a> \u201cSonra \u00e7evremdeki herkese g\u00f6sterdim ve onlar da sayd\u0131\u201d diye s\u00f6yledi. \u201cHepimiz \u015fa\u015fk\u0131na d\u00f6nd\u00fck.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cKu\u015flar\u0131 g\u00f6rmek, bende ya\u015fanan trajedi konusunda bir huzur duygusu uyand\u0131rd\u0131,\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n

Tesad\u00fcflerde bazen ku\u015flar da rol al\u0131yor gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyor.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Tesad\u00fcfleri ara\u015ft\u0131ran ve Yale’de e\u011fitim g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f bir\u00a0psikiyatrist\u00a0olan Dr. Bernard Beitman, Epoch Times<\/strong> ile ara\u015ft\u0131rm\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fu \u201ctaziye tesad\u00fcfleri\u201d listesini payla\u015ft\u0131. Bir\u00e7o\u011funda ku\u015flar da vard\u0131. Benzer \u015fekilde, Hill’in de derinlemesine ara\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 tesad\u00fcflerin neredeyse tamam\u0131n\u0131n ku\u015flarla ilgisi var.<\/p>\n

\u00d6rdekler, sayg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6stermek i\u00e7in s\u0131raya dizilirler.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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\u00d6rne\u011fin; Beitman taraf\u0131ndan at\u0131f yap\u0131lan bir tesad\u00fcf, yakla\u015f\u0131k 30 y\u0131ld\u0131r evinin yak\u0131n\u0131ndaki bir g\u00f6lette \u00f6rdekleri d\u00fczenli olarak besleyen bir adamla ilgiliydi. Kar\u0131s\u0131 \u201cYahudi Kalbi i\u00e7in K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck Mucizeler: D\u00fcn\u00fcn ve Bug\u00fcn\u00fcn Ola\u011fan\u00fcst\u00fc Tesad\u00fcfleri\u201d adl\u0131 kitab\u0131nda hasta oldu\u011fu zaman bile \u00f6rdekleri beslemeyi asla unutmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yazd\u0131.<\/p>\n

Cenaze t\u00f6reni kafilesi g\u00f6l kenar\u0131ndan ge\u00e7erken, durdu. \u201cOrada, yol boyunca bir \u00e7izgi halinde, kendi d\u00fczenlerinde, g\u00f6lden soka\u011f\u0131n di\u011fer taraf\u0131ndaki evime kadar s\u0131ralanm\u0131\u015flard\u0131. Uzun bir \u00f6rdek kafilesi, dip dibe, s\u00fck\u00fbnet ve sessizlik i\u00e7inde ayakta duruyorlard\u0131.<\/p>\n

\u201cOnca y\u0131l ard\u0131nda durduklar\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131r \u00e7itini nas\u0131l k\u0131rm\u0131\u015flard\u0131? \u0130l\u00e7e idaresinin \u00f6rdeklerin alan\u0131n\u0131 korumak i\u00e7in kurdu\u011fu \u00e7itin hasar g\u00f6rmemi\u015f ve bozulmam\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fu ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131; uzun y\u0131llar boyunca \u00f6rdekler daha \u00f6nce hi\u00e7 bu s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131 ihlal etmeye kalk\u0131\u015fmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u00d6rdeklerin tam da bu saatte bu yolda g\u00f6r\u00fcnmesi sadece bir tesad\u00fcf m\u00fcyd\u00fc?<\/p>\n

Kar\u0131s\u0131 i\u00e7in bu bir i\u015faretti: \u201cG\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc kadar anla\u015f\u0131lmaz, gizemli ve\u00a0 kozmik bir bulmacayd\u0131. Y\u00fcre\u011fimde biliyordum ki, \u00f6rdeklerin o kederli g\u00fcnde e\u015fi benzeri g\u00f6r\u00fclmemi\u015f bir \u015fekilde o yolda var olmas\u0131n\u0131n, sadece bir makul a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131 vard\u0131. \u0130nsanlar gibi onlar da cenaze t\u00f6reni i\u00e7in ve sayg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6stermek i\u00e7in oradayd\u0131lar.\u201d<\/p>\n

Dul kad\u0131n, aile evlerinin kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 son kez kapat\u0131rken bir ku\u015f evin i\u00e7ine dalar.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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Hill’in \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131na katk\u0131da bulunanlardan biri, Patricia (takma ad\u0131) ad\u0131nda 61 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki bir kad\u0131n, evini ta\u015f\u0131mak i\u00e7in paketleme yap\u0131yordu. Bu evde alt\u0131 ay \u00f6nce \u00f6len kocas\u0131 Jim ile birlikte ya\u015fam\u0131\u015ft\u0131; o\u011fullar\u0131 Jacob’u b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fckleri yer buras\u0131yd\u0131.<\/p>\n

Evinden son kez ayr\u0131l\u0131rken, bir ku\u015f i\u00e7eriye girerek merdivenlerden \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p do\u011frudan do\u011fruya Jacob’un eski odas\u0131na do\u011fru u\u00e7tu. Patricia, Hill’e \u015funlar\u0131 s\u00f6yledi: \u201cDonakald\u0131m ve h\u0131\u00e7k\u0131rarak a\u011flad\u0131m, o anda onun Jim oldu\u011funu biliyordum.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201c[Ku\u015f] bulundu\u011fu yeri \u00e7ok sevmi\u015f gibiydi – sanki onun i\u00e7in d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en do\u011fal mekan\u0131yd\u0131. \u015e\u00fcphesiz ki \u00f6yleydi. Jacob’un odas\u0131 onun [Jim’in], o\u011fluna hik\u00e2ye okuyarak bir\u00e7ok gece ge\u00e7irdi\u011fi, bir\u00e7ok Cumartesi g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc zemindeki hal\u0131n\u0131n \u00fczerinde sava\u015f oyunlar\u0131 oynayarak ge\u00e7irdikleri, onun mutlu bir baba oldu\u011funu anlatan bir\u00e7ok an\u0131 ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015f olan odayd\u0131.\u201d<\/p>\n

Hill bu olay\u0131 \u015f\u00f6yle a\u00e7\u0131klad\u0131, \u201cPatricia, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 tecr\u00fcbenin \u00f6len kocas\u0131ndan bir i\u015faret oldu\u011funa, kocas\u0131n\u0131n hayat\u0131na devam etmesini ve tekrar mutlu olman\u0131n yollar\u0131n\u0131 bulmas\u0131n\u0131 istedi\u011fi anlam\u0131na geldi\u011fine inand\u0131.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ku\u015f sembol\u00fc, Patricia’n\u0131n bundan sonra y\u0131llar boyu kendisini kocas\u0131na yak\u0131n hissetmesine yard\u0131mc\u0131 oldu. Hayat\u0131 boyunca \u00f6nemli anlarda ku\u015flar\u0131 g\u00f6zlemlemeye ve bu sembole olan sayg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6stermek i\u00e7in evinde bir ku\u015f dekoru bulundurmaya devam etti. Hill, matem \u00fczerine yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu ara\u015ft\u0131rman\u0131n, yak\u0131n\u0131n\u0131 kaybeden ki\u015fi i\u00e7in o ili\u015fkiyi unutmak yerine, \u00f6len ki\u015fiyle bir ba\u011f kurup bu ba\u011f\u0131 sa\u011flam tutman\u0131n daha faydal\u0131 olabilece\u011fini g\u00f6sterdi\u011fini belirtti.<\/p>\n

Tesad\u00fcfler, psikiyatrlar taraf\u0131ndan hastalar\u0131na yard\u0131m etmek i\u00e7in kullan\u0131labilir.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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Beitman ve Hill’in yan\u0131 s\u0131ra; bu fenomeni inceleyen di\u011fer bilim adamlar\u0131 da, matem d\u00f6neminde kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131lan tesad\u00fcflerin psikolojik dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k s\u0131ras\u0131nda yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilece\u011fini belirtiyorlar.<\/p>\n

Beitman, tesad\u00fcflerin iyile\u015ftirici etkileri hakk\u0131ndaki bir makalesinde<\/a> \u015funlar\u0131 yazd\u0131: \u201cPsikoterapi paradigmalar\u0131, olduk\u00e7a yararl\u0131 olsa da, genellikle Freudcu psikanaliz ve Bili\u015fsel Davran\u0131\u015f\u00e7\u0131 terapinin neden-sonu\u00e7 modelleri ile s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r.\u00a0 Ge\u00e7erli paradigma s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131n geni\u015fletilmesinde fayda vard\u0131r.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u015e\u00f6yle devam ediyor: \u201c\u0130ntegratif (b\u00fct\u00fcnle\u015ftirici) t\u0131p genellikle eski zamanlar\u0131n ilkeleri, kavramlar\u0131 ve felsefeleri ile Bat\u0131 d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndaki topraklardan yay\u0131lan \u015fifa yakla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131 ba\u011fda\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r. Bu \u015fifa yakla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu, tek bir insan zihninin di\u011fer zihinlerden veya \u00e7evreden net bir \u015fekilde ayr\u0131lamayaca\u011f\u0131 fikrini benimsiyor. Dahas\u0131; integratif t\u0131p maneviyat\u0131n, sa\u011fl\u0131k ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131n bir par\u00e7as\u0131 olarak \u00f6nemini kabul etmektedir.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cHer g\u00fcn kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z anlaml\u0131 tesad\u00fcflerin, g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayat\u0131n zorlu sular\u0131nda gezinmemize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacak yararl\u0131 bir ara\u00e7 oldu\u011funu ve psikoterapi uygulamas\u0131na hayati bir ben-\u00f6tesi boyut ekleyebilece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyoruz.\u201d<\/p>\n

Benzer \u015fekilde, New York \u015eehir \u00dcniversitesi’nden Dr. Vidette Todaro-Franceschi, yak\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131 kaybetmi\u015f ve tesad\u00fcflerle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fm\u0131\u015f insanlarla grup toplant\u0131lar\u0131 d\u00fczenledi. 2006 y\u0131l\u0131nda yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ara\u015ft\u0131rman\u0131n ard\u0131ndan \u015f\u00f6yle yazd\u0131<\/a> \u201cBu tesad\u00fcfler yas tutan insanlar\u0131n, hayat, ya\u015famak, \u00f6l\u00fcm ve \u00f6lmekle ilgili ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 \u00e7eli\u015fkili duygular\u0131 dengelemelerine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur.\u201d<\/p>\n

Yerel bir gazete muhabiri ac\u0131n\u0131n iyile\u015ftirilmesine y\u00f6nelik bu \u00f6zel yakla\u015f\u0131mla ilgilendikten ve oturumlardan biri hakk\u0131nda yazd\u0131ktan sonra; Todaro-Franceschi, \u201cTakip eden haftalarda yas tutan ki\u015filerden grup toplant\u0131lar\u0131na gelmek istediklerini bildiren \u00e7ok say\u0131da telefon ald\u0131m.\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n

Yeni bilim s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 ke\u015ffetmeye devam etmek i\u00e7in websitemizi ve Facebook\u2019daki\u00a0Epoch Times T\u00fcrkiye<\/a> sayfas\u0131n\u0131 ziyaret edin!<\/em><\/p>\n

Epoch Times, mevcut bilgilerimize meydan okuyan olaylar ve teoriler ile ilgili ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131 ve s\u00f6ylentileri ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor. Biz, hayal g\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc canland\u0131racak ve yeni olanaklar yaratacak fikirleri ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yoruz.\u00a0Facebook sayfam\u0131zdan<\/a>, bazen tart\u0131\u015fmal\u0131 da olabilen konular hakk\u0131nda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinizi bizimle payla\u015f\u0131n.<\/em><\/p>\n

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\u00c7eviri: Hatice Atmaca, Epoch Times T\u00fcrkiye<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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