H\u0131z\u0131n, hazz\u0131n ve menfaatlerin h\u00fck\u00fcm s\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc modern bir d\u00fcnyada, ruhumuzu dinlendiren o kadim limanlar\u0131 her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn daha \u00e7ok \u00f6zl\u00fcyoruz. Ko\u015fturmaca i\u00e7inde kaybolurken, bizi kendimize getirecek o samimi dokunu\u015fu ar\u0131yoruz. \u0130\u015fte tam bu anlarda, hayat\u0131n t\u00fcm karma\u015fas\u0131n\u0131 tek bir c\u00fcmleyle ask\u0131ya alabilen o nadide insanlar\u0131 hat\u0131rlamak gerekiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ender dost, telefonun ucunda hi\u00e7bir resmiyete, bahaneye ya da protokole s\u0131\u011f\u0131nmadan, “Bir \u00e7ay koy, geliyorum<\/strong>” diyebildi\u011findir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bu c\u00fcmle, sadece bir ziyaret iste\u011fi de\u011fildir. \u0130\u00e7inde sonsuz bir g\u00fcveni, hesaps\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve “oldu\u011fun gibi kabul edilme” hafifli\u011fini bar\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131r. “Evin kap\u0131s\u0131 da, g\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fcn kap\u0131s\u0131 da bana her zaman a\u00e7\u0131kt\u0131r, biliyorum” demenin en yal\u0131n halidir. Ne \u00fcst\u00fcn\u00fcze ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za \u00e7ekid\u00fczen vermenize gerek vard\u0131r o gelmeden \u00f6nce, ne de evdeki da\u011f\u0131n\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 gizlemenize. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bilirsiniz ki gelen, evinizi toplamaya de\u011fil, ruhunuzun da\u011f\u0131n\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 payla\u015fmaya geliyordur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Edebiyat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ve k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn en naif \u015fairlerinden birine atfedilen, i\u00e7imizi \u0131s\u0131tan, \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fim bir s\u00f6z vard\u0131r:<\/p>\n\n\n\n “Sen \u00e7ay d\u00f6k, ben i\u00e7imi\u2026”<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0130\u015fte dostlu\u011fun en saf, en demli tan\u0131m\u0131 bu be\u015f kelimede gizlidir. O \u00e7ay barda\u011f\u0131 dolarken, insan da d\u00f6ker heybesinde ne varsa. Kelimeler o s\u0131cak bu\u011funun i\u00e7inde erir, anlam bulur. Kar\u015f\u0131ndaki insan seni yarg\u0131lamadan, s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc kesmeden, sadece “orada” olarak dinler. \u00c7ay barda\u011f\u0131 elini \u0131s\u0131t\u0131rken, dostun varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 da y\u00fcre\u011fini \u0131s\u0131t\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde “arkada\u015f” \u00e7ok, ama “dost” enderdir. Sosyal medyadaki y\u00fczlerce be\u011feninin, yapay tebriklerin ve \u00e7\u0131kar ili\u015fkilerinin aras\u0131nda, o demli \u00e7ay\u0131n kokusunu bulmak zordur. Ger\u00e7ek bir dostla i\u00e7ilen \u00e7ay,<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hayat, tek ba\u015f\u0131na ta\u015f\u0131namayacak kadar a\u011f\u0131r y\u00fcklerle doludur bazen. Ama o y\u00fck\u00fc omuzlamaktan yoruldu\u011funuzda, s\u0131rt\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 yaslayabilece\u011finiz bir omzun varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 her \u015feyi de\u011fi\u015ftirir. “Bir \u00e7ay koy geliyorum” diyen ses, d\u00fcnyaya kar\u015f\u0131 yaln\u0131z olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n en somut kan\u0131t\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n E\u011fer hayat\u0131n\u0131zda telefon a\u00e7\u0131p bu c\u00fcmleyi kurabildi\u011finiz ya da size bu g\u00fcvenle gelen birileri varsa, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en zengin insan\u0131 sizsiniz demektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bug\u00fcn, hayat\u0131n ko\u015fturmacas\u0131na k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir es verin. Ajandalar\u0131, bitmeyen i\u015fleri, ertelenen sohbetleri bir kenara b\u0131rak\u0131n. Telefonu elinize al\u0131n ve o ender insanlardan birine sadece \u015fu mesaj\u0131 at\u0131n:<\/p>\n\n\n\n “\u00c7ay\u0131 koydum, bekliyorum. Gel de biraz i\u00e7ini d\u00f6k\u2026<\/strong>“<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" H\u0131z\u0131n, hazz\u0131n ve menfaatlerin h\u00fck\u00fcm s\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc modern bir d\u00fcnyada, ruhumuzu dinlendiren o kadim limanlar\u0131 her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn daha \u00e7ok \u00f6zl\u00fcyoruz. Ko\u015fturmaca i\u00e7inde kaybolurken, bizi kendimize getirecek o samimi dokunu\u015fu ar\u0131yoruz. \u0130\u015fte tam bu anlarda, hayat\u0131n t\u00fcm karma\u015fas\u0131n\u0131 tek bir c\u00fcmleyle ask\u0131ya alabilen o nadide insanlar\u0131 hat\u0131rlamak gerekiyor. Ender dost, telefonun ucunda hi\u00e7bir resmiyete, bahaneye ya […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14013,"featured_media":167144,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_yoast_wpseo_focuskw":"\u00c7ay","_yoast_wpseo_title":"","_yoast_wpseo_metadesc":"Ender dost, telefonun ucunda hi\u00e7bir resmiyete, bahaneye ya da protokole s\u0131\u011f\u0131nmadan, \"Bir \u00e7ay koy, geliyorum\" diyebildi\u011findir.","_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"footnotes":"","_yoast_wpseo_focuskw_text_input":""},"categories":[11361],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\nBir Bardak \u00c7ayda Eriyen Dertler<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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Demini Alm\u0131\u015f Hayatlar<\/h3>\n\n\n\n