“Hayat\u0131n\u0131 saklayan ki\u015fi g\u00fczel ya\u015fam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r”<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Elektrikli arabalarda vergi avantaj\u0131n\u0131 kald\u0131ran Trump ile Elon Musk aras\u0131nda ge\u00e7en ve birbirilerini su\u00e7layan tart\u0131\u015fma d\u00fcnyada \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131k yaratm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. \u00d6yle ya biri devlet Ba\u015fkan\u0131, di\u011feri d\u00fcnyan\u0131n say\u0131l\u0131 insanlar\u0131ndan… \u0130kisi de g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc, medyatik, h\u0131rsl\u0131, ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131, y\u00fcksek egolu ve frensiz… Sapk\u0131nl\u0131k iddias\u0131, uyu\u015fturucu ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131, delilik gibi su\u00e7lamalar d\u00fcnyan\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fc \u00f6n\u00fcnde b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131kla izlendi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130kisi de medyaya \u00e7\u0131kmay\u0131 ve g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fc vermeyi a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 seviyor. Her f\u0131rsatta a\u00e7\u0131klamalarda bulunuyorlar. G\u00fcl\u00fc seven dikenine katlan\u0131rm\u0131\u015f. Mademki medyatikli\u011fi bu denli seviyorlar, sonu\u00e7lar\u0131na da katlan\u0131rlar. Asl\u0131nda konu di\u011fer t\u00fcm geli\u015fmelerle de alakal\u0131. D\u00fcnyada k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck m\u00fc artt\u0131 yoksa haberdar olma imk\u00e2nlar\u0131 m\u0131 \u00e7o\u011fald\u0131? Haberdar olma ve g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u00fck o denli artt\u0131 ki bu, insanlara olumsuz \u015feylerin artt\u0131\u011f\u0131 izlemini veriyor. Oysa k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck hep vard\u0131 ama eskiden \u00e7abucak yay\u0131lm\u0131yor, duyulmuyordu. \u015eimdi ileti\u015fim artt\u0131, h\u0131zland\u0131. An\u0131nda her \u015feyden ve her yerden haberdar oluyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u015ei Cinping ve Putin de en az Trump kadar, Musk kadar tan\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131\u011fa, bilinirli\u011fe sahiptirler. Ancak onlar\u0131n \u00f6zel hayatlar\u0131 ve devlet i\u015fleri ortal\u0131\u011fa sa\u00e7\u0131lm\u0131yor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ya\u015famlar\u0131 korunakl\u0131 ve az g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr. Adam mosmor g\u00f6zlerle kamera \u00f6n\u00fcne \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor, deli deli hareketler yap\u0131yor. Elbette bu d\u00fcnyan\u0131n diline d\u00fc\u015fer. Oysa mahremiyet denen bir \u015fey var okyanusun bu taraf\u0131nda. Bir\u00e7ok \u015fuurlu insan buna uygun davran\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mahremiyet sadece gizlilik de\u011fildir. D\u0131\u015far\u0131ya kar\u015f\u0131 sayg\u0131y\u0131 ifade eder. Ne denli g\u00f6zlerden uzak ya\u015f\u0131yorsan, o denli ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6zel hayatlar\u0131na sayg\u0131l\u0131s\u0131n demektir. Her \u015feyini ortaya d\u00f6ken, ba\u015fkalar\u0131na sayg\u0131 duymuyor demektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130nsan yak\u0131n\u0131ndaki, y\u00f6resindeki ki\u015filerin yeteneklerini pek dikkate almaz. Zira onu t\u00fcm yanlar\u0131yla tan\u0131r, bilir. Ortada gizem, \u00e7ekicilik kalmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. O bak\u0131mdan o ki\u015fiyi ciddiye almaz. Bilir ki o da zaaflar\u0131 olan etten kemikten birisidir. Fakat uzaktaki \u00f6yle mi? Onu filmlerden, fotolardan, videolardan tan\u0131r, bilir. S\u00fcrekli iyi yanlar\u0131, g\u00fczel taraftar\u0131yla muhatap olur. Ak\u0131llarda \u00f6yle kal\u0131r onlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Televizyon \u00f6ncesi veya tek kanall\u0131 d\u00f6nemi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn! \u00dcnl\u00fcler, oyuncular, yazarlar, siyasiler eri\u015filmez, dokunulmaz idiler. Sadece kartpostallarda en g\u00fczel anlar\u0131yla ve de TV’lerde k\u0131sa s\u00fcreli\u011fine, usturuplu halleri ile g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcrlerdi. Hayranl\u0131k uyand\u0131r\u0131r, hayalleri s\u00fcslerlerdi… Ama o ki\u015fileri ev halleriyle g\u00f6rseydiniz, arkada\u015fl\u0131k falan etseydiniz, b\u00fcy\u00fck ihtimalle hakk\u0131ndaki kanaatiniz de\u011fi\u015firdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bir\u00e7ok \u00fcnl\u00fcye ait \u00f6zel an\u0131lar, ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015fl\u0131klar bilirim. \u00d6nceleri yad\u0131rgad\u0131m, konduramad\u0131m. Ama zamanla \u00fczerinde d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcnce, ne denli insani olabilece\u011finin fark\u0131na vard\u0131m. \u015ea\u015f\u0131rmamak gerekti\u011fine ve hemen herkesin benzer davran\u0131\u015flar sergileyebilecek yap\u0131da olabileceklerine kanaat getirdim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ya\u015f almayla beraber kar\u015f\u0131dakini daha \u00e7ok anlay\u0131\u015fla kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131yor insan. Daha fazla empati yetene\u011fi y\u00fckleniyor. Tecr\u00fcbe belli bir ya\u015ftan sonra geliyor. Gen\u00e7ken az tolerans sahibi ki\u015filer, ya\u015fland\u0131k\u00e7a \u015fa\u015f\u0131rmamaya ba\u015fl\u0131yor, sakin davran\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Medyatiklik ya da g\u00f6zler \u00f6n\u00fcnde ya\u015famak, bir tercih meselesidir. Kimileri bunu sever. G\u00f6stermeyi, hava atmay\u0131, k\u0131skand\u0131rma duygusu uyand\u0131rmay\u0131, polemi\u011fe girmeyi, didi\u015fmeyi severler ve bundan haz al\u0131rlar. O halde bu ki\u015filer pe\u015finen ele\u015ftirilmeyi, lin\u00e7 yemeyi falan kabul ediyorlar demektir. Hi\u00e7 kusura bakmay\u0131n! Hem te\u015fhir edeceksin hem de \u00f6zel hayat diye \u015fikayet edeceksin…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Para, g\u00fc\u00e7, \u015f\u00f6hret, maneviyat eksikli\u011fi, \u015f\u0131mart\u0131r m\u0131? Genellikle \u015f\u0131mart\u0131r, herkes ta\u015f\u0131yamaz bunu. \u0130\u015fte o bak\u0131mdan \u00fcnl\u00fclerin, g\u00fc\u00e7 sahiplerinin ta\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131klar\u0131 pek \u015fa\u015f\u0131rtmaz beni.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
“Hayat\u0131n\u0131 saklayan ki\u015fi g\u00fczel ya\u015fam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r” Elektrikli arabalarda vergi avantaj\u0131n\u0131 kald\u0131ran Trump ile Elon Musk aras\u0131nda ge\u00e7en ve birbirilerini su\u00e7layan tart\u0131\u015fma d\u00fcnyada \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131k yaratm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. \u00d6yle ya biri devlet Ba\u015fkan\u0131, di\u011feri d\u00fcnyan\u0131n say\u0131l\u0131 insanlar\u0131ndan… \u0130kisi de g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc, medyatik, h\u0131rsl\u0131, ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131, y\u00fcksek egolu ve frensiz… Sapk\u0131nl\u0131k iddias\u0131, uyu\u015fturucu ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131, delilik gibi su\u00e7lamalar d\u00fcnyan\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fc \u00f6n\u00fcnde b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131kla izlendi. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14001,"featured_media":161038,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_yoast_wpseo_focuskw":"medyatiklik","_yoast_wpseo_title":"","_yoast_wpseo_metadesc":"Elektrikli arabalarda vergi avantaj\u0131n\u0131 kald\u0131ran Trump ile Elon Musk'\u0131n, birbirilerini su\u00e7layan tart\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131, d\u00fcnyada \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131k yaratm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.","_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"footnotes":"","_yoast_wpseo_focuskw_text_input":""},"categories":[9170],"tags":[11729,11752],"yoast_head":"\n