“\u00c7ok fazla bilen insan, hi\u00e7bir yere ait olamaz. Bu, fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131n lanetidir”<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00d6m\u00fcr ve hayat\u0131n farkl\u0131 \u015feyler oldu\u011funu 60 ya\u015f\u0131mda \u00f6\u011frendim. Ya\u015fam uzman\u0131 \u00fcnl\u00fc hekimimize g\u00f6re, \u00f6m\u00fcr bize do\u011fu\u015ftan verilen s\u00fcredir. Bu da insanlarda ortalama 120 y\u0131ld\u0131r. Fakat insan ya\u015fam bi\u00e7iminden do\u011fan hatalar nedeniyle ya da t\u00fcrl\u00fc imk\u00e2ns\u0131zl\u0131klardan dolay\u0131, verilen \u00f6m\u00fcrden daha az ya\u015far.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ayr\u0131ca bir de hastal\u0131ks\u0131z kaliteli ya\u015famak vard\u0131r. \u00d6mr\u00fcn\u00fcz diyelim 80 y\u0131l ama o zaman diliminde nas\u0131l bir hayat ya\u015fad\u0131n\u0131z? Hayat, sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve tat alarak ya\u015fanan s\u00fcredir. \u0130nsan 80 y\u0131l ya\u015fad\u0131 diyelim ama bunun son 20 y\u0131l\u0131 hastal\u0131klarla, hastanelerde ge\u00e7tiyse, demek ki 60 y\u0131l hayat\u0131n\u0131z vard\u0131. Gerideki hastal\u0131kl\u0131 ya\u015fama \u00f6m\u00fcr s\u00fcrmek deniyormu\u015f ve hayat ya\u015fad\u0131 say\u0131lm\u0131yormu\u015f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u00fcrkiye’de ortalama \u00f6m\u00fcr, kad\u0131nlarda 80, erkeklerde 78 imi\u015f. Fakat bunun hastal\u0131ks\u0131z ortalamas\u0131 57 y\u0131l imi\u015f. ABD’de de ortalama \u00f6m\u00fcr T\u00fcrkiye ile ayn\u0131 olmakla beraber, hastal\u0131ks\u0131z s\u00fcre ortalamas\u0131 orada 64 imi\u015f. Yani nedir? Her ya\u015fanan \u00f6m\u00fcr, hayat say\u0131lm\u0131yormu\u015f. \u0130nsan \u00f6mr\u00fcne ka\u00e7 hayat s\u0131\u011fd\u0131r\u0131r ki?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hani \u00f6m\u00fcr i\u00e7inde \u00e7e\u015fitli d\u00f6nemler vard\u0131r. E\u011fitim d\u00f6nemi, bek\u00e2rl\u0131k d\u00f6nemi, evlilik d\u00f6nemi, i\u015f hayat\u0131, ini\u015fler-\u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015flar bir d\u00f6ng\u00fcd\u00fcr s\u00fcrer… Ayr\u0131ca sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ya\u015fanan k\u0131s\u0131mlar, sa\u011fl\u0131ks\u0131z ya\u015fanan k\u0131s\u0131mlar vard\u0131r. Misal t\u00fct\u00fcn, alkol al\u0131nan d\u00f6nem farkl\u0131d\u0131r. Spor yaparak, k\u00f6t\u00fc al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klardan uzak durarak ge\u00e7en s\u00fcre farkl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Neymi\u015f efendim, \u00f6m\u00fcr bizlere bah\u015fedilen veya genetik aktar\u0131m yoluyla ge\u00e7en bir zaman sayac\u0131. Hayat ise dolu dolu sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve bilin\u00e7li ge\u00e7en d\u00f6nem. Kariyer yap\u0131lan, hayat planlamas\u0131na uygun ge\u00e7en. Hayat planlanabilir mi o da ayr\u0131 bir soru. Hayat\u0131n y\u00fczlerce tarifinden biri de “sen planlar yaparken, ba\u015f\u0131na gelenlerdir hayat” derler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bana g\u00f6re de hayat planlanamaz. Fakat ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 insanlar size genellikle hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l planlad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 ve nas\u0131l ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olduklar\u0131ndan dem vuracaklard\u0131r. Ben inan\u0131yorum ki onlar hava atmak ad\u0131na b\u00f6yle s\u00f6ylerler. \u00c7o\u011fu tesad\u00fcfleri ve \u015fans\u0131 kendi ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131 gibi anlat\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130yi bir \u00f6m\u00fcr s\u00fcrmek ve hayat ya\u015famaktan ne anlar\u0131z? Burada herkes kendi b\u00fcnyesine ve karakterine g\u00f6re bir \u015fey anlar – ki \u00e7o\u011fu i\u00e7in bu, iyi bir kariyer ve parad\u0131r. Onun \u00f6tesinde ne var ki? Asl\u0131nda idrak edebilen ve ibret alabilen i\u00e7in \u00e7ok \u015feyler vard\u0131r ama i\u015fte idrak etmek ve ibret almak herkese g\u00f6re de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131, huzurlu bir hayat herkese nasip olmaz. Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131, huzurlu hayat, piyangodan ikramiye vurmak gibidir. Etraf\u0131ma bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda insanlar tatminsiz ve aray\u0131\u015f i\u00e7inde. Kimse elindekilerin fark\u0131nda de\u011fil. Hep sahip olamad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n pe\u015finde. Derler ya hani “elin tavu\u011fu, ele kaz g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcrm\u00fc\u015f”. Bu da yorar, sa\u011fl\u0131k problemleri yapar, mutsuz k\u0131lar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Huzurlu, dingin bir hayat, insan\u0131n kendi ellerindedir. Ba\u015fka yerlerde aramak nafile bir \u00e7abad\u0131r. Sonu\u00e7ta tatmink\u00e2r ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ya\u015faman\u0131n bir s\u0131rr\u0131 ve re\u00e7etesi yoktur. Herkes kendi deneyimini ya\u015far.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yaz\u0131m\u0131 Hasret G\u00fcltekin’e ait t\u00fcrk\u00fc s\u00f6zlerinin iki k\u0131tas\u0131 ile bitirmek istiyorum. Yaz\u0131n\u0131n sonunda t\u00fcrk\u00fcy\u00fc dinlemenizi tavsiye ederim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bir insan \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fc neye vermeli
Harcan\u0131p gidiyor \u00f6m\u00fcr dedi\u011fin
Yolda kalan da bir y\u00fcr\u00fcyen de bir
Harcan\u0131p gidiyor \u00f6m\u00fcr dedi\u011fin<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Y\u00fcre\u011fin \u00fcrperir kap\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131nsa
Esmeyen yelinden hile sezerler
K\u00fcnyeler kaz\u0131n\u0131r demir sand\u0131kta
T\u00fckenip gidiyor \u00f6m\u00fcr dedi\u011fin<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
“\u00c7ok fazla bilen insan, hi\u00e7bir yere ait olamaz. Bu, fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131n lanetidir” \u00d6m\u00fcr ve hayat\u0131n farkl\u0131 \u015feyler oldu\u011funu 60 ya\u015f\u0131mda \u00f6\u011frendim. Ya\u015fam uzman\u0131 \u00fcnl\u00fc hekimimize g\u00f6re, \u00f6m\u00fcr bize do\u011fu\u015ftan verilen s\u00fcredir. Bu da insanlarda ortalama 120 y\u0131ld\u0131r. Fakat insan ya\u015fam bi\u00e7iminden do\u011fan hatalar nedeniyle ya da t\u00fcrl\u00fc imk\u00e2ns\u0131zl\u0131klardan dolay\u0131, verilen \u00f6m\u00fcrden daha az ya\u015far. Ayr\u0131ca bir de […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14001,"featured_media":161038,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_yoast_wpseo_focuskw":"\u00d6m\u00fcr","_yoast_wpseo_title":"","_yoast_wpseo_metadesc":"\u00d6m\u00fcr ve hayat\u0131n farkl\u0131 \u015feyler oldu\u011funu 60 ya\u015f\u0131mda \u00f6\u011frendim. Ya\u015fam uzman\u0131 \u00fcnl\u00fc hekimimize g\u00f6re, \u00f6m\u00fcr bize do\u011fu\u015ftan verilen s\u00fcredir.","_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"footnotes":"","_yoast_wpseo_focuskw_text_input":""},"categories":[9170],"tags":[11729,11752],"yoast_head":"\n